In April, join us for What Happy Couples Know. It doesn't matter if you're married, single, divorced, or claim your iguana as your best friend, this is a series for you! Over these four weeks, we'll learn the secrets to good relationships from Andy Stanley. But it doesn't stop there. We don't want to simply hear, we want to engage. Jump in with one of our short-term small groups to continue to conversation beyond Sunday morning. Life is better together and we don't want you to miss this opportunity to connect!

small group resources

As you circle up each week, here are a few resources to help you get the conversation going. Do you need to watch the message again? There's a button for that too!

  • week 1: Nothing

    A great marriage doesn’t happen by accident. It requires care and regular maintenance. But sometimes we don’t want to make the effort. As long as it’s not broken, do we really need to talk about it?

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  • week 2: it's mutual

    We all enter into marriage with hopes, dreams, and desires. They create expectations. But when you put those expectations onto your spouse, it turns your marriage into a debt/debtor relationship. Your relationship becomes marked by the belief that your spouse owes you something. So, how do you keep your hopes, dreams, and desires from becoming expectations?

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  • week 3: sometimes you have to throw things

    As long as you think your spouse owes you, your marriage will be all about keeping score. That destroys intimacy. It destroys love. But what are we supposed to do about our hopes, dreams, and desires?

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  • week 4: it's a choice

    Happy couples decide they owe each other everything but are owed nothing in return. But that requires effort. Every married person makes a choice every day. That choice feels more like a reaction, so most people don’t think they have a choice at all. But they do. Happy couples make the happy choice.

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